Modern dating often feels like a paradox—many crave deep connection but shy away when intimacy requires effort. Emotional labour, the work of being present, patient, and vulnerable, is not a weakness but the foundation of genuine love. Yet, when faced with this reality, avoidance takes over. This post explores why some retreat when intimacy deepens, how cognitive dissonance plays a role, and what it means to break free from the cycle of disillusionment

Love isn’t meant to hurt. Explore the truth about inconsistent relationships, their emotional toll, and how to choose peace over pain

Offers insights on how to strengthen bonds in a relationship. Whether navigating through a fallout or simply seeking to enhance partnership.